Do you go skiing last winter? Fahren Sie Ski dieses Jahr? Some of my friends asked me about the techniques of mastering skiing from time to time.
Be brave, fall down as earlier as possible and as many time as possible. These would be my best experiences to offer.
How to be brave, when facing the steep slope of the ski resort? To be honest, it barely hurts when we fall down on the snowy ground. The the cushioning of the layers of snow buffers the gravity. Here comes the question, why are we afraid of falling down so much?
Before digging into the reasons, let's just dissect the phrase "fall down." Instead of standing upfront, lying on the ground accidentally gives people a sense of embarrassment. It may be the symbol of failure and inability. To be seen as a successful individual and a grownup, people tend to avoid being seen as weak or vulnerable. That's the main reasons why people are trying so hard to prevent from "falling down."
However, it's always a great opportunity to learn some valuable lessons and to face our true inner fear about being seen as natural as an infant. We have to tell ourselves that it's okay to lie down, to rest, to do nothing productive.
As long as we embrace the chance of being upgraded by trying something we aren't familiar with, we could accumulate tons of treasurable experiences. To transfer the word "new" into "now", there're many alphabets between e and o. That may be the steps we ought to move forward.
At least 50 kilometers per hour, sometimes it goes beyond 80. It's usually around 0 degree Celsius, sometimes it's -10. The visibility is not always cystal clear. However, when we go skiing, the heat of excitement from our body is floating from the inside constantly. It gives us the energy to overcome any sudden circustances, such as a hard falling down .
After being frustrated from the falling down occasionally, we could take it as light as the breeze, just like the breeze in spring. We are acquainting the path, the possible protruding surface of the skiing hill, and the naughty kids around to bump into us presumptuously.
In all, if we wanna be a master of everything, encounter the frustrating situation as eariler, as many times, as frequently as possible, because these "accidental events" would be the best nutrients for us to absord, to learn,to grow.
Before digging into the reasons, let's just dissect the phrase "fall down." Instead of standing upfront, lying on the ground accidentally gives people a sense of embarrassment. It may be the symbol of failure and inability. To be seen as a successful individual and a grownup, people tend to avoid being seen as weak or vulnerable. That's the main reasons why people are trying so hard to prevent from "falling down."
However, it's always a great opportunity to learn some valuable lessons and to face our true inner fear about being seen as natural as an infant. We have to tell ourselves that it's okay to lie down, to rest, to do nothing productive.
As long as we embrace the chance of being upgraded by trying something we aren't familiar with, we could accumulate tons of treasurable experiences. To transfer the word "new" into "now", there're many alphabets between e and o. That may be the steps we ought to move forward.
At least 50 kilometers per hour, sometimes it goes beyond 80. It's usually around 0 degree Celsius, sometimes it's -10. The visibility is not always cystal clear. However, when we go skiing, the heat of excitement from our body is floating from the inside constantly. It gives us the energy to overcome any sudden circustances, such as a hard falling down .
After being frustrated from the falling down occasionally, we could take it as light as the breeze, just like the breeze in spring. We are acquainting the path, the possible protruding surface of the skiing hill, and the naughty kids around to bump into us presumptuously.
In all, if we wanna be a master of everything, encounter the frustrating situation as eariler, as many times, as frequently as possible, because these "accidental events" would be the best nutrients for us to absord, to learn,to grow.
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